Typical “Watch Me! Watch Me!” Male Submission
FemDom and male submission art and stories like this are kind of annoying. They are not very realistic and all too much of the “watch me! watch me!” behaviour. In reality, do you REALLY think three...
View Article30 Days of Dominance
Found this posted to several Tumblr BDSM sites. Another project, for another time. Day 1 – Does your Dominance – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your...
View ArticlePretty Much my Final Word on Fetlife
I’m not looking to meet anyone here just keeping a profile up for the sake of having a login on the site. For me D/s (domination and submission) are fun. There should be humour, laughter, creativity...
View ArticlePower in Submission
There isn’t any power in the submission of a guy who lies at your feet begging for it. There is a big difference between a needy guy who thinks serving a Dom is all about what she does to him versus a...
View ArticleTaking the Fem out of FemDom?
From 24/4 love and submission: Stop gendering the words Dom and sub when you are talking about D/s in general. My comment posted to Scoop.it: BDSM Fetish and Fashion: To say D/s isn’t about gender is...
View ArticleIt Should Not be Lonely at the Top
My reply to a woman who asked for help because she was feeling she could not reveal her “weak” feelings and a need to explore her own submission to her submissive little one in Mommy/ little...
View ArticleHow to Impress a Domme When Meeting for the First Time
You’ve gotten through her screening process and she has set a time and place for you to meet her, face to face. Now what? How do you make a good first impression on a real Domme when you meet for the...
View ArticleThings Sexually Unadventurous People Should Try
Good luck finding someone sexually unadventurous to try most, if any, of these. No one should be pushing someone into a sexual adventure they don’t want or aren’t ready for. Analingus Vibrators Role...
View ArticleHow Did you Decide You’re a Dom?
I wrote the following in a reply to someone on Redditt: I began exploring BDSM without having a role as sub, switch or Dom. I took time to see how I felt and how I felt about other people who had those...
View ArticleFemDom in Submission
Usually I sort out FemDom art by how it appeals to me. Mainly, does it look realistic or just a performance focused on him. This image really appeals to me because she is tied up but still looks just...
View ArticleExpecting the Male Submissive to Behave Like One
There is a difference between trying to make people do things and expecting people to do things. What makes a woman a good Domme… expecting him to be submissive. Not forcing or pushing or making him...
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